We all hope for a peaceful end to a life well-lived. Although it may be a difficult topic to raise, respecting your loved one’s wishes at the end of life is one of the greatest gifts you can offer them. Although it may be uncomfortable, it’s best to raise the topic sooner rather than later to ensure that your mom, dad or partner has the presence of mind to give you the information you need to make them comfortable as they near the end.

Perhaps you could do with a bit of guidance in terms of what to ask.

Here are some essential questions to include:
1. What would you like to be remembered for?
2. Who would you like to make medical decisions on your behalf when you are unable to?
3. What are your feelings on burial and cremation?
4. What are your preferences around pain management?
5. How would you like to say goodbye?
6. Would you prefer to spend your final days at home or is hospice an option for you?
7. What kind of medical care would you like to have? What would you like to avoid?
8. Allow your family member to complete the sentence ‘My priorities at the end of life are…’
9. How much detail would you like your doctor to share with your loved ones?
10. When the time comes, would you prefer to be alone or surrounded by family and friends?

The difficult conversation is often the most worthwhile, and when it comes to preparing for the end of your loved one’s life, this is certainly the case. A life well-lived involves writing each chapter with mindfulness and care. Allow your loved ones the opportunity to draft a conclusion with their dearest values at its heart.

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